Too Good to Be True: The Romance Scam Trap
Have you ever received an unexpected text or message from someone you don’t know? It might feel harmless—or even flattering—but sometimes, that’s how a “pig butchering scam” begins. The name comes from the idea of slowly “fattening up” a target before taking everything.
Scammers often start by striking up a friendly conversation. They may shower you with compliments, make romantic gestures, and work hard to win your trust over time. Once they feel you’re comfortable, they’ll introduce what looks like a lucrative investment opportunity. In reality, it’s just a setup—and when the money is sent, the scammer vanishes.
It’s important to remember romance scams don’t just affect the person being targeted. They can impact families and loved ones, too. Older adults, people who are newly single, or anyone experiencing loneliness may be especially vulnerable. Checking in and having open, judgment-free conversations with friends and family can help spot warning signs early and protect them before money is lost.
Staying aware is the best defense. To learn more about how these scams work and how to protect yourself and your loved ones, check out this helpful guide from The Knoble, a nonprofit dedicated to fighting exploitation through financial crimes.